We went to Las Vegas for Thanksgiving this year after facing a difficult decision (we are still hoping for forgiveness from a certain party). In wake of that, the flight was really rough and practically everyone got sick on the flight out. However, on a layover in San Francisco we bough Ghiradelli chocolates and a fellow family of passengers gave us some magazines they had read after we struck up a conversation about Disneyland and travel. Consequently, we finished a crossword puzzel on the way down.
In Vegas the weather was beautiful and balmy. We watched Bugsy Malone (Julia's first time). We tried to clean out some my old files and possessions from growing up. We ate out at Roberto's Taco Shop and Baja Fresh. We also had some fun watching several Studio C clips and trying to fix the paintball guns.
Thanksgiving was at my parent's home. Julia (and I) made two of her AMAZING apple pies (Aunt Jackie even called them "earthy looking") and helped out with a few other things. The dinner was fantastic including a bevy of delicious pies, turkey, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes/turnips, beets and beeted carrots, green beans, stuffing, pomegranate juice, Marco's rolls, soups, etc. There were new babies there including niece E and D & A Reynolds' baby girl A. The settings were lovely and the company was spectacular. We also enjoyed having friends Katya (from Russia) and Aswin (from India) present.
Later, we reconvened at the church to play a game of Yoga Ball, knock-out, and then basketball.
Over the week we went to see Wreck It Ralph (most of the family liked) and Lincoln (everybody loved).
Later still, the Meservys got together for a smaller round of Christmas poems.
Dad took the boys golfing on Friday. On the first tee-off one of the brothers accidentally threw his club easily 200 feet. There were a handful of par holes had and plenty of disappointing bouts but it was still fun. And, afterward we went to get wings before coming home to a baby shower being thrown by the women for sister E's best friend B. The shower looked great and the chicken sandwiches were excellent.
Sunday we took some family photos and then did the traditional BLTs with the priesthood.
THANKSGIVING
David Archuleta & The Mormon Tabernacle Choir
Julia and I attended this live when we were dating. Thank you for the free tickets Grandma Behra. The dancing and singing was very impressive. This was, indeed, a very classy performance. I recommend it and now you can watch it.
Lincoln
The best Abraham Lincoln film around is the new Spielberg film. It is very well researched, quotes from his life extensively, and a great film. It also focused on Lincoln's role in the passing of the 13th Amendment (outlawing slavery as the first constitutional mention of slavery) and his family life.
Some quotes:
"With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation's wounds, to care for him who shall have borne the battle and for his widow and his orphan, to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves and with all nations."
"I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice."
"We all declare for liberty; but in using the same word we do not all mean the same thing."
"Stand with anybody that stands right. Stand with him while he is right and part with him when he goes wrong."
"We begin with equality, it’s the origin, isn’t it? That’s justice. See, we’ve shown that if people can endure awful sacrifice and yet cohere."
Another terrific reference--
Abraham Lincoln: The Prairie Years and the War Years by Carl Sandberg
The book was a Pulitzer Prize winner and Sandberg interviewed people who knew Lincoln personally in compiling his account.
A Gem Amongst the Suburbia
Trick-Or-Treat
Joe did dress up as Jonah though and I threw together a rainbow fish costume the night before so we were Jonah and the fish or as one girl guessed the old man and the sea. After the ward trunk-or-treat and chili cook off we went to a fun Halloween Party where we got to chat with some friends.
On Halloween night we had no plans. We had gotten some candy and hoped some little ghouls would stop by trick-or-treating. Joe wanted to get a movie so we stopped off at Hastings where we ran into two couples from our ward! Joe invited one of them over for games at our place and they accepted! After pizza, jenga, and lots of fun they left and Joe and I were excited to have just had our first guests over to our apartment (besides family). Alas, there were no trick-or-treaters to be found, but that didn't stop me and Joe from eating all the candy in the house. Happy Halloween!
Miss Atomic Bomb
My wife is the real Miss Atomic Bomb...unfortunately, she also dropped a bomb on me and left to the Relief Society social tonight...I'll forgive and make up...
Thank you Brother Flowers and company for the poetic synthesis.
Joe's Favorite Halloween Movies
Signs (2002)
What Lies Beneath (2000)
Arachnophobia (1990)
Vertigo (1958)
Arsenic and Old Lace (1944)
**Although I have yet to see it I have heard good things about The Ghost and Mr. Chicken (1966)**
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Legislation in Washington this November 2012
In addition to the election of local and national leaders, Washington state citizens will be presented with some local state legislation to vote on. I believe that the two most important pieces are those found below.
Referendum 74 - Please Vote that this be "Rejected"
*Thirty-two states out of thirty-two have voted to keep marriage as between one man and one woman dating back to 1998. This is a moral question and indeed each American can and should hold fast to the principles of morality and the blessings of freedom sought here for families with children and without.
Initiative 502 - Please Vote against this
*This initiative would legalize marijuana in WA and have farming of the drug monitored by the Washington State Liquor Control Board. Consideration should be given that children and other Americans should not be subjected to second-hand marijuana smoke. Moreover, if marijuana is made legal and more readily accessible it stands likely to reason that there will be more DUI's caused by this drug's readiness to potentially irresponsible parties.
O America, My America
On the first page of the United States Constitution read the words “in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution of the United States of America”. American’s have long since regarded these choices as “by the people” but too seldom recognize the carefully crafted language and selfless commitments of the people in order to form “a more perfect union” and to “secure the blessings of liberty”.
Sitting in the eating area of the law school at Gonzaga University I had an experience you might find interesting. A fellow law student was complaining about a politician’s comments on the middle east and so I joined his conversation having read a couple books on the candidate which I felt might give me...wisdom and an ability to clear up the truths. His response was to bring up two other issues which were on the ballot in the November election--marijuana legalization and same-sex marriage recognition. I will support neither despite the alleged support of my fellow student.
My fellow student and fellow American tried by subversive means, which I do not believe he recognized to be subversive, to argue my stance away--my stance being that marriage is ordained of God and that marriage should be defined as being between only one man and one woman.
He tried to shake me with comparisons between same gender relationships and interracial relationships. This approach was surely not intended to “ensure domestic tranquility” in a country where slavery once existed. I have heard African Americans claim that such a comparison is, to them, offensive (e.g. Harvard Law alumni E. W. Jackson) as no homosexual has ever been enslaved in this country (to my knowledge). My qualm with this perspective is that in the one instance no marriage--man and woman was previously permitted whereas in the other a non-marriage of a man and a man should not be permitted and never before has been "by the people".
I was blessed after being born into a family made up of a man and a woman married lawfully who with responsibility loved and cared for each other and their children. Who would deny that this means that the “blessings of liberty” were secured for myself? My mother stayed home and taught me to read and write while my father went to work as an accountant. In the summers we took vacations. My parents paid taxes, voted regularly, bolstered their friends, and donated to church funds and charities the best they knew how in addition to caring for their children and supplying us with a home with a swimming pool.
My law school friend and I briefly discussed these blessings of liberty. I can point out now that children would be adversely affected if the laws regarding guardianship should become confused and dishonest. In the case of two homosexual women who enter a relationship there may already be children involved from a previous heterosexual relationship and then legal rights to the child as a guardian could potentially be invested in the two but what would happen if the “natural” mother became incapacitated or died? I read a real story of such a case in California. The “natural” father of the child wished to regain custody of the child and was facing a wall. This scenario would be essentially hopeless if marital status had been given to the homosexual partners. And, how would you like to be the judge who refuses to choose to allow such a daughter and father reunite? How would you feel about it?
When the argument is made to me that “it’s just two people who love each other trying to get married” it seems repelling and I am offended. I am married to my spouse, we are yet childless, and she and I try each day to love and respect one another. I am repelled by the call for my love be compared to some relationship which may never directly naturally produce children (even given various forms of hormonal and scientific pathways to aiding the creation of children with help from family medicine). Additionally, it can be offensive to me to hear this comparison when I have read in the Bible Almighty God state that homosexual relationships are abominable in His eyes (Romans 1). At this point, hasn’t my faith and belief been offended? Hasn’t the most sacred part of my life been compared to something difficult to understand as a lost lamb?
Prior to the first judicial panel determining to allow same-sex marriage in Massachusetts on twenty six out of twenty seven occasions Americans had voted in their respective spheres of influence to define marriage as between one man and one woman. In fact, since 1998, thirty-two states have held votes on state constitutional amendments regarding same-sex marriage, and all thirty-two states have opposed it. Think briefly of the arrogance of that court. How could a court begin to unravel charitable statuses for churches sustained by American people which protect the sanctity of marriage--this is a viable concern which I won't discuss briskly at this time. How could a court not see the discouragement that could add to problems with civil marriages, declining families, and perhaps birth rates.
My discreditor may or may not like to invite others to gawk at my uneasiness with the topic or to describe me as a racist or a dishonest or unfair person. The clear truth is that his perspective is not clear or is not a long term perspective. Or, perhaps he is just wrong. This is a moral choice. America’s constitution was written by anglo Christians. Over the years America became legitimately diverse and we are now not an anglo-Christian nation but a Christian nation of free people. We all go by “Americans” and we all pledge allegiance to “one nation under God indivisible with liberty and justice for all”. I seek to secure that liberty for my family and the future children I intend to raise in a goodly manner. I stand firmly on my faith and hope and my love for others that marriage will and should be defined as it has been since before the inception of the country as one man and one woman aiming to improve based upon the lessons learned from the previous generation and lessons inspired by He who used to be referred to as the American spirit.
I would also like to add that I do not presume to speak for God at this time, although, I believe that His wisdom is available to us today to examine and re-examine. I am grateful for the spoken words of prophets (Amos 3:7). One of those prophets is Thomas S. Monson.
Ultimately, to allow same-sex marriages could also complicate and confuse genealogical record keeping significantly for children entrusted to the guardianship of such partnerships including records regarding more remote generations (perhaps more than one generation back), and other religious practices regarding genealogy.
Truth Resonates Even When It's Embroiled In Politics
I came across this video on a political site I read from time to time. I watched the video with my wife. EW Jackson's words resonated with me. I loved his use of Romans 1:16 (one of the scriptures I have fully memorized from my early morning seminary days). While I don't believe that the Democratic Party is evil, I agree that the platform which he specifically addresses is. So, check out the video--I recommend it.
Also, I did a quick search for his biography and learned EW Jackson is a Harvard Law School graduate, a former Virginia Senate candidate, co-founder of S.T.A.N.D., a political contributor, and also a leader in a church I am not familiar with.
Cereal Extravaganza
A few weeks ago our local grocery store had a 13 hour sale on cereal and milk. Naturally, we attended and bought 23 boxes of sugary cereals and 2 gallons of milk. Not 5, not 10, but 23 boxes. Our supply of cereal is going strong and to celebrate I would like to share my favorite videos about cereal and milk.
Labor Day in Rexburg
The Friday before Labor Day I realized that all of my immediate family, besides John Michael, would be in Rexburg for the weekend! Joe got home from school and we made the spur of the moment decision to drive the 7ish hours there to see them since we might not see any of them again till Christmas 2013. In our fierce frenzy we threw our clothes in bags, tossed the bags in the car, and drove till 2am to get there. Jameson and Emma graciously allowed us to stay in their apartment for the weekend.
Go out to eat at the Yummy Texas Roadhouse
YUM! Thanks parents! I can't ever get enough of their rolls and cinnamon honey butter. Somehow, my leftovers mysteriously disappeared though... Afterwards we went out of our way to look at a bunch of puppies that were for sale. They were so cute and I spent far too much time trying to convince Joe to get me one. Sadly, no puppy yet, but there can be no doubt that we are all dog people.
Go to the East Idaho State Fair
We mosied around the fair looking at everything from an arm wrestling tournament to a quilt show. I loved seeing the cake decorating contest, it's amazing what some people can do with frosting, all the animals, and the photography. We even got to see some of my Uncle Sherwin's ribbon winning photos! About halfway through the day it started pouring rain so we hid in a plethora of buildings looking at animals or shopping. When we realized it wasn't going to lighten up we made a run for the car. All and all, we thought this venture was a success. Joe was very proud that he got to milk a cow, hold a baby pig, and eat some Nacho Libre corn.
Friday Night Dates
After moving to Spokane we discovered the entertainment store, Hastings. We love it! So naturally, we bought four movies and rented the other two. Plus, they always give us these nifty scratch cards to see if we win deals to the store, which we did. Just normal life at the Meservy home - living our lives as winners.
The Cookie Fiasco
Anyways, we made tons of cookies and we were off to deliver them. We knocked and knocked, but at most doors nobody answered. At first I thought, well, nobody must be home.... but in over half of the entire complex? No way! We finally caught our upstairs neighbors, the Birch family, and gave them a plate. Them and their kids are cute and we are glad to have them as our neighbors and in our ward. We chatted with them a bit and then found a few more people who would open their doors to us. This included one lady who almost looked like she was going to cry, she kept saying how nice we were, and a man on a diet who couldn't have them.
Finally, we arrived at the last door. I was wondering where the weird ponytail man was, the one from the chill pill story, and was a little worried to run into him again. Well, this was his apartment and his door was open. Joe called in, "Hello! We brought you cookies. We are new and wanted to introduce ourselves!" The reply, "Go away! I don't want them!" We stood there for a moment not realizing what he just said so he got up and slammed the door. Ouch. Anyways, the moral of the story is: Don't bring cookies to the old crotchety man who lives in your apartment complex. You can't win him over. However, one nice guy did bring us peaches in return for the cookies (yum... the fruit of our labors!), so do bring everyone else cookies. Then you will be able to gauge who to avoid - the crazy ones.
While Reading my Book of Mormon Manual for Class Today...
• One reason Satan encourages murmuring is to prevent us from following living prophets, inspired leaders, and parents. Elder H. Ross Workman of the Seventy explained that “murmuring consists of three steps, each leading to the next in a descending path to disobedience.” First, when people murmur they begin to question. They question “first in their own minds and then [plant] questions in the minds of others.” Second, those who murmur begin to “rationalize and excuse themselves from doing what they [have] been instructed to do. . . . Thus, they [make] an excuse for disobedience.” Their excuses lead to the third step: “Slothfulness in following the commandment.” “The Lord has spoken against this attitude in our day: ‘But he that doeth not anything until he is commanded, and receiveth a commandment with doubtful heart, and keepeth it with slothfulness, the same is damned’ (D&C 58:29). . . .The City of Lights (France Part 3)
Before our last ride we watched some of the parade in front of the Sleeping Beauty Castle and then after the ride we watched the awesome water/light show on the castle. It was MAGICAL and AMAZING!
Today I am Thankful For...
- The soft sound of Joe's snores and light breathing in the middle of the night that make me feel safe and at home.
- Pictures of Tally - AKA the cutest dog ever.
Go Mom!
I'm proud of my Mom who is planning on renewing her status as a registered registrar and who has consistently stood on firm ground as an American in belief of freedom and securing the blessings of liberty for all men (and women).
From Lyon to Avignon (France Part 2)
Once Joe and I started off for the beach we were able to walk through Nice and get a better picture of the whole city. It was very nice and very touristy. We walked through a shopping area and gave a little money to some street performers who were playing Ode to Joy and other classical favorites on stringed instruments. They were good! Then Joe treated me to lunch at the Cafe Opera. Here we had ratatouille - delicious! You've got to eat ratatouille in France!
After lunch we were off to the beach! There was nowhere for us to store our clothes or wallets so we snuck on to some fancy private beach and hid them in a planter (although, we didn't really realize it was a private beach till later). The Mediterranean water was positively gorgeous, but I was a little too worried about my purse getting stolen from the planter to enjoy myself as much as I should have. Joe had a fun time swimming though and I sunbathed for awhile on the beach chairs. I was surprised that these beaches did not have sand - they where all rocks! So strange. Just as a note, I did not see any nudes swimming about, but Joe said he did! He does NOT like to talk about it - apparently it was one big nude lady! After swimming we both tried Ferrero Rocher ice cream at a nearby ice cream shop - amazing!










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